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Thursday, January 13, 2011
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
HGKWW ::: Q&A V
Q: I have a problem with my scalp. I started trying the co-washing thing and my hair loves it, but sometimes there's a white film on parts of my scalp. When my hair dries, it flakes up a little bit. Is this a bad reaction to the conditioner?
A: It sounds like you simply haven't been rinsing the conditioner out of your hair well enough. I doubt your scalp is having a bad reaction to the conditioner. You just need to make sure that you are getting all of the product out of your hair or else you'll experience residue build-up. One thing you can do is experiment with different conditioners. Here are a few ways to avoid and remove product build-up from co-washing, or even just shampooing.
- Wash your hair in SECTIONS. If you haven't done this before, the difference will be life-changing. Depending on your patience and hair length & thickness, you should part your hair into 4-6 sections before washing it. Not only does it make the hair easier to manipulate and minimize tangling, you will have better access to your scalp. Not having to navigate blindly through your hair will help you target common problem areas, such as the crown of your head and the area behind the ears. Many people experience product build-up in those areas since they are easy to miss.
- CLARIFY YOUR SCALP using a clarifying shampoo. These shampoos are more drying to the hair than others so I suggest you focus them on where they are needed most--your scalp. Clarifying shampoos break down build up and make way for your conditioners and moisturizers to work their magic.
- Use a CLARIFYING CONDITIONER when you are co-washing. They are designed to not leave behind any residue as normal conditioners will do over time. You still need to be sure to rinse well, but it makes the job a little bit easier.
- Try an APPLE CIDER VINEGAR (ACV) RINSE after using your conditioner. In addition to removing build up from the hair, ACV rinses can help the hair cuticles to lay flat, helping to prevent split ends and lock in moisture and nutrients. Your hair will also get a boost of shine!!! You simply spray or pour the ACV rinse on your hair once you have rinsed out the conditioner.
Apple Cider Vinegar Mix1-2 tbs apple cider vinegar
2 cups room temperature distilled water/rosemary water/spring water
Monday, December 20, 2010
HGKWW ::: Warning...Warning...PROTEIN OVERLOAD
Y'all can't laugh.
I'm serious.
I'm going to share a horror story with you. It was traumatizing and old emotions are resurfacing as I recall this past experience, so bear with me. *deep breath*
A few months ago, I got really busy with my apartment hunting and re-locating to Washington, DC...& I didn't notice that I was low on my moisturizer. I figured I could just use my Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioner for a day or two until I made it to the store. A "day or two" turned into a week or so. Terrible idea. I forgot that the Cantu Leave-In is protein-based and my hair is very protein sensitive.
When I took my hair down for the weekend, my hair was snap-crackle-poppin'...dry. brittle. stiff. AWFUL. I was scared to manipulate it because I just knew it was all going to break off in my hand. I know. Horrible. Poor me.
This is called a PROTEIN OVERLOAD.
Symptoms? Your hair will feel DRY & BRITTLE. It TANGLES EASILY & if not handled ASAP, you could experience BREAKAGE.
I try to tell my friends who have had Protein Tragedies that yes, your hair needs protein, but not all protein conditioners and treatments are created equal. For example, Aphogee is a really hard core protein treatment and I've heard quite a few horror stories.
People who have chemically treated hair (relaxers, dyes, etc.) are in need of protein treatments more often than those with natural hair since those processes break down the hair. Protein is also key for transitioners--it helps strengthen the line of demarcation and prevent breakage. For natural hair, you have to pay attention to how you hair responds to know if you're protein sensitive, protein needy, or somewhere in-between.
Need some lighter sources of protein?
I'm serious.
I'm going to share a horror story with you. It was traumatizing and old emotions are resurfacing as I recall this past experience, so bear with me. *deep breath*
A few months ago, I got really busy with my apartment hunting and re-locating to Washington, DC...& I didn't notice that I was low on my moisturizer. I figured I could just use my Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioner for a day or two until I made it to the store. A "day or two" turned into a week or so. Terrible idea. I forgot that the Cantu Leave-In is protein-based and my hair is very protein sensitive.
When I took my hair down for the weekend, my hair was snap-crackle-poppin'...dry. brittle. stiff. AWFUL. I was scared to manipulate it because I just knew it was all going to break off in my hand. I know. Horrible. Poor me.
This is called a PROTEIN OVERLOAD.
Symptoms? Your hair will feel DRY & BRITTLE. It TANGLES EASILY & if not handled ASAP, you could experience BREAKAGE.
I try to tell my friends who have had Protein Tragedies that yes, your hair needs protein, but not all protein conditioners and treatments are created equal. For example, Aphogee is a really hard core protein treatment and I've heard quite a few horror stories.
People who have chemically treated hair (relaxers, dyes, etc.) are in need of protein treatments more often than those with natural hair since those processes break down the hair. Protein is also key for transitioners--it helps strengthen the line of demarcation and prevent breakage. For natural hair, you have to pay attention to how you hair responds to know if you're protein sensitive, protein needy, or somewhere in-between.
Need some lighter sources of protein?
Aveeno Nourish + Condition Leave-In Treatment
Garnier Fructis Fortifying Conditioner Long & Strong
Olive Oil Replenishing Conditioner
Friday, December 17, 2010
HGKWW ::: Beware of Hair Routines!!!
Here is a story a reader emailed to me recently:
So a couple of things came to mind after reading this...
A great read on balancing the moisture and protein in your hair: HERE!!!!!!
I'm honestly not a fan of protein treatments. One day, I bought a 2oz bottle of aphogee protein treatment on my way to a Dominican salon in New Brunswick. Disclaimer: This is a horror story. Jess, I took it to these ladies thinking that because they had a license to run a shop that they would know how to use this product. Jess...this product made my hair like feel like a potato chip/styrofoam. I didn't know hair could be so crispy!! I literally held my breath while waiting to wash because I thought my hair would fall out. It made my hair hard and crispy!! I don't know what I was expecting, but certainly not that. The aphogee protein treatment is super intense and super foul smelling. That experience was so off putting that I stopped going to the salon indefinitely and didn’t try the whole protein thing again for 8 weeks. I also find it hard to restore the moisture back into my hair once I apply the protein treatment. I’m giving protein one more try. Then I’m done.
So a couple of things came to mind after reading this...
ONE. In order for hair to be healthy, it has to have a good balance of protein and moisture. If your hair is screaming "I'm thirsty!!!" then give it something to quench its thirst! If your hair is complaining about feeling a little weak lately, then give it a boost of strength! That means give your hair moisture when it needs it & protein when it needs it. In another part of this email, the reader clearly expressed that she has problems with her hair being dry. She needs to be focusing on restoring the moisture balance and not protein right now. So don't give up on protein, honey bunches!!! Just know when to apply it.
TWO. Certain products cater to different extremities of hair needs. I know I talk about moisture all of the time, but protein is something that your hair does need. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and become a victim of a PROTEIN OVERLOAD. If she wanted to make sure her hair was getting the needed amount of protein, a light protein-based conditioner could have been sufficient. Many protein treatments are directed at people who need some major protein rebuilding in their hair (people with chemically treated hair so this might be a common mistake for recent transitioners). If your hair suffers from dryness, too strong of a protein-based formula could throw your hair balance in the wrong direction.
THREE. Watch out for hair stylists that just do whatever the customer wants without any sort of consultation or suggestions. They should have known everything I am telling you now and pointed my dear reader in the right direction.
FOUR. Why was the reader applying the protein treatment at that moment in time? Was it because her hair told her it needed more protein? Or was this some routine she had created and was trying to stick to? There are so many blogs and books and other sources of information that insist that you make a hair routine and stick to it. I'm a little more lenient. My "routine" is more of a guide. Yes, there are things that need to happen in a timely fashion. But 9 times out of 10 I have reached up to touch my hair and thought "Hmmm....maybe it's time for a such-and-such." Just because I usually wash my hair on Tuesdays won't stop me from doing an emergency wash on Monday. LISTEN TO YOUR HAIR. That's one of the best things you can do. Do not be a slave to your hair routine!!!!
A great read on balancing the moisture and protein in your hair: HERE!!!!!!
HGKWW ::: Q&A IV
Q: I've been neglecting my ends and now they are split like crazy!!! What can I do to fix them? Are there any ways that I can repair them and avoid having to cut my hair?
A: You are not going to like what I am about to say. I know you may see commercials for hair products that promise to fix this and mend that. I am sorry. But once your ends are split, there is no going back. The only way to get rid of split ends is to trim them. Anything else you see that claims to negate what I am telling you? It is only temporary and you will eventually have to cut your split ends off regardless.
Don't hold on to split ends!!! I know it hurts to see length go, but if you try to keep your split ends around long enough, the split can travel up the shaft of the hair and soon there will be an even bigger issue at hand.
On the good side: Maybe this will serve as motivation to give your hair the attention it craves. Any split ends and damage to your ends that results from your neglect, is most likely irreversible. Preventing split ends is one of the best ways to help with length retention.
On the good side: Maybe this will serve as motivation to give your hair the attention it craves. Any split ends and damage to your ends that results from your neglect, is most likely irreversible. Preventing split ends is one of the best ways to help with length retention.
Remember to:
Keep your hair moisturized.
Keep your hair moisturized.
Wear a satin scarf or bonnet at night.
Minimize heat usage if you cannot avoid it completely.
Manipulate the hair less often.
Wear protective styles.
Trim hair when it needs to be trimmed!!!
Minimize heat usage if you cannot avoid it completely.
Manipulate the hair less often.
Wear protective styles.
Trim hair when it needs to be trimmed!!!
Thursday, December 16, 2010
::: HGKWW ::: What's YOUR type? ;-)
I'm sure you have noticed that not every chick you see with natural hair has the same curl pattern in their hair. And I wouldn't be surprised if you asked someone with a different hair type for some advice or a quick tip & when you tried it, the results weren't quite the same.
One important step in learning how to care for ur natural hair is understanding the characteristics of your hair type. I was trying to plot on the best way to break this down for my readers & ran across this wonderful article on the Hair Type Classification System posted by NaturallyCurly.com.
I encourage you to check it out!!!
What's your type?!
::: HGKWW ::: Healthy Hair Is "Good Hair"
The "good hair" discussion has been coming up over and over again lately.
I cannot stand when people classify "good hair" as a certain hair curl pattern or length. & it hurts my heart to see women feeling discouraged about their natural hair journey because they are having hair-type envy.
I have people tell me all of the time that they can't go natural like I did because they don't have "good hair" like I do. Let me tell y'all one thing. I work HARD to get my hair to look decent everyday. I don't just roll into bed at night & roll out in the morning looking fresh & ready to go for the day. This isn't magic. I constantly experiment with hair products and styling methods. This wasn't innate knowledge.
I also dislike the story that many Black women like to tell about how they know their hair is unmanageable without a relaxer so they've been getting one since they were 6 years old. *serious face* You were doing your own hair at age six? Do you TRULY remember how your hair was when you were that young? Who told you your hair was impossible to deal with without chemical alteration? I'm pretty sure you did not come up with that on your own. Don't let other people stick their negative conclusions upon you.
Now. If you so choose to get relaxers because that is the best for you and that is what you are comfortable with? Fine. I'm not going to gather my fellow kinky ladies & stand outside your home to protest. But please do not tell me that you get relaxers because you don't have "good hair." Please don't. If that is what you believe, then keep it to yourself.
Don't tell me you can't wear your hair in its natural state because you do not have "good hair." That implies to me that your definition of what makes hair good is all skewed and mixed up.
So how do I define "good hair"?
Healthy hair is good hair.
The end.
Just because you get a relaxer to make your hair more manageable for you, does not mean it is healthy if you do not take the necessary steps to maintain it.
Just because your hair has a looser curl does not mean your hair is automatically healthier.
Just because you get a relaxer to make your hair more manageable for you, does not mean it is healthy if you do not take the necessary steps to maintain it.
Just because your hair has a looser curl does not mean your hair is automatically healthier.
It takes time to learn how to handle your hair when it is natural. Especially since by the time most of us were old enough to handle our own hair, we had relaxers slapped on to our scalps to save us from the plaguing struggle of having to work with our kinks and curls. *insert sarcasm here*
Just be patient. If you see someone rocking a style or if someone recommends a product & when you get home & try it, you have a tragic outcome, don't be discouraged. Don't pout & declare that you have been skipped in the distribution of good hair genes. Everything doesn't work for everybody. Everything does not affect everyone the same way.
Love your hair. Embrace it. Take the steps you need to in order to keep your hair healthy and you too can flaunt your "good hair." xoxo
Friday, December 10, 2010
HGKWW ::: "I love my hair!!!"
I'm sure by now that many of you have seen Sesame Street's "I love my hair!" video...
And if not:
Cute, right? ABC News released an article on the inspiration of the video that you can check out here:
ABC News: 'I Love My Hair' Video Inspired By Father's Love of Daughter
Now take a look at this:
"I Love My Hair" T-shirts
*UPDATE: The site removed the photo of the white model & now only have the picture of the t-shirt up... "I Love My Hair" T-shirts updated
This company chose to have a White young woman model a t-shirt based on something meant to show African American girls that they should love their hair as it is. Does the race of the model really matter? Do you think this website missed the point? Do you think the message of the t-shirt changes once someone who is not African American decides to purchase and wear it?
Thoughts? Feelings?
And if not:
Cute, right? ABC News released an article on the inspiration of the video that you can check out here:
ABC News: 'I Love My Hair' Video Inspired By Father's Love of Daughter
Now take a look at this:
"I Love My Hair" T-shirts
*UPDATE: The site removed the photo of the white model & now only have the picture of the t-shirt up... "I Love My Hair" T-shirts updated
This company chose to have a White young woman model a t-shirt based on something meant to show African American girls that they should love their hair as it is. Does the race of the model really matter? Do you think this website missed the point? Do you think the message of the t-shirt changes once someone who is not African American decides to purchase and wear it?
Thoughts? Feelings?
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
HGKWW ::: The War Against Dry Hair: The Right Conditioner
In an earlier post, I mentioned that not all conditioners are equal. Nor are they all designed to do the same things for your hair.
I stress the importance of moisturizing the hair all of the time. But if there is one more thing that can fight off the dreaded dry hair dilemma...it's conditioning conditioning conditioning.
But! The right conditioner.
Some conditioners are meant to rebuild the protein in your hair. What we need right now is to replenish the moisture content of our hair.
Here are a few of my fav go-to moisturizing conditioners (& as usual, they are on the easy-on-the-pocket end):
*Try these conditioners when doing a deep condition. Deep conditioning for AT LEAST 15-20 minutes (& under a hooded dryer, if you can) is a must. I usually shoot for 30-45, especially in the absence of a dryer.
Of course, these are only conditioners I've tried. There are TONS more to try. What ingredients should you look for?
ONE. Water
TWO. Fats (fatty alcohols)
THREE. Humectants/Emollients
I stress the importance of moisturizing the hair all of the time. But if there is one more thing that can fight off the dreaded dry hair dilemma...it's conditioning conditioning conditioning.
But! The right conditioner.
Some conditioners are meant to rebuild the protein in your hair. What we need right now is to replenish the moisture content of our hair.
Here are a few of my fav go-to moisturizing conditioners (& as usual, they are on the easy-on-the-pocket end):
Herbal Essences Hello Hydration
*Herbal Essences Replenishing Conditioner
*ORS Replenishing Pak (word on the street is it comes in bottles now!!!)
Suave Humectant
Suave Almond & Shea Butter
*Neutrogena Triple Moisture Deep Recovery Hair Mask
*Dove Intense Moisture
*Creme of Nature Nourishing Conditioner *Try these conditioners when doing a deep condition. Deep conditioning for AT LEAST 15-20 minutes (& under a hooded dryer, if you can) is a must. I usually shoot for 30-45, especially in the absence of a dryer.
Of course, these are only conditioners I've tried. There are TONS more to try. What ingredients should you look for?
ONE. Water
TWO. Fats (fatty alcohols)
THREE. Humectants/Emollients
HGKWW ::: The "Search & Destroy" Trimming Method
I love scissors. Too much.
Give me an array of colored construction paper & see what happens.
There was a time when if you told me I needed to trim my hair, I'd look at you like "BACK UP!!!!!"
Well, not anymore...I've learned to get over my hair cutting phobia. In fact, lately my friends have been screaming for me to stay away from the scissors. But I really despise crappy looking ends & seeing my split ends fall away is really therapeutic.
But don't be like me & go hair chopping crazy!!!
Many people like to get their hair trimmed every 6-8 weeks. The truth is, if you take good care of your ends, most of your hair probably doesn't need a trim! There are usually a few culprits in every bunch, but overall your ends may be just fine. So how can you avoid cutting hair that does not need to be cut?
And yes. It is exactly what it sounds like. You search for the damaged ends and you destroy them!!!!!!! Well, you cut them off...
The S&D method can be done every month or two and definitely in-between full trims.
*NOTE* Whenever you cut your hair make sure that you are using actual HAIR SHEARS...not regular scissors. Using scissors that are not specifically designed to cut hair can result in MORE damaged and split ends.
There is no real set way to perform a search-and-destroy...I've seen several suggestions on how to do it. I usually don't make it through my whole head in one sitting and I focus on about one square inch of hair at time. Make sure your area is well-lit so you can clearly see which ends look stressed and are splitting.
Here's a chart to guide you in knowing which ends need to go:
Because I do not wear my hair bone straight often and favor curlier styles, I do not need all of my hair to be exactly the same length. This makes me a little less anal about getting traditional trims, so the S&D works for me.
All you need is good light, hair shears, a mirror, a magnifying glass if you so desire & PATIENCE!!!!!
Give me an array of colored construction paper & see what happens.
There was a time when if you told me I needed to trim my hair, I'd look at you like "BACK UP!!!!!"
Well, not anymore...I've learned to get over my hair cutting phobia. In fact, lately my friends have been screaming for me to stay away from the scissors. But I really despise crappy looking ends & seeing my split ends fall away is really therapeutic.
But don't be like me & go hair chopping crazy!!!
Many people like to get their hair trimmed every 6-8 weeks. The truth is, if you take good care of your ends, most of your hair probably doesn't need a trim! There are usually a few culprits in every bunch, but overall your ends may be just fine. So how can you avoid cutting hair that does not need to be cut?
The Search & Destroy method!!!
And yes. It is exactly what it sounds like. You search for the damaged ends and you destroy them!!!!!!! Well, you cut them off...
The S&D method can be done every month or two and definitely in-between full trims.
*NOTE* Whenever you cut your hair make sure that you are using actual HAIR SHEARS...not regular scissors. Using scissors that are not specifically designed to cut hair can result in MORE damaged and split ends.
There is no real set way to perform a search-and-destroy...I've seen several suggestions on how to do it. I usually don't make it through my whole head in one sitting and I focus on about one square inch of hair at time. Make sure your area is well-lit so you can clearly see which ends look stressed and are splitting.
Here's a chart to guide you in knowing which ends need to go:
Because I do not wear my hair bone straight often and favor curlier styles, I do not need all of my hair to be exactly the same length. This makes me a little less anal about getting traditional trims, so the S&D works for me.
All you need is good light, hair shears, a mirror, a magnifying glass if you so desire & PATIENCE!!!!!
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
HGKWW ::: The War Against Dry Hair: The Shower Cap
I'm ALWAYS looking for another way to combat the dryness I experience with my hair. And so, every once in a while, I'll share something I've added to my constantly growing arsenal.
Today? The shower cap.
I'm sure that most of us know that shower caps can prevent moisture from getting to our hair. However, not only can a shower cap keep the moisture OUT, it can keep the moisture IN.
Have you been trying your best to keep a daily and/or nightly hair moisturizing routine and STILL notice that your hair is dry when you wake up in the morning? PART of that reason may be because the air is soaking up all of the moisture from your hair products before your hair has a chance to absorb it.
My suggestion to you? After you moisturize you hair as explained here, put a plastic shower cap (the little cheap clear plastic ones will do) over your hair & then place your satin scarf or cap over top of it. Leave it on overnight. In the morning, take the cap off a few minutes before styling and manipulating your hair. Because the shower cap trapped the moisture inside of it, your hair might feel slightly damp. This usually isn't noticeable and dries quickly, which is why I suggest removing the cap a few minutes prior to when you actually begin to style your hair.
Your hair should not feel dry like it usually does since it was allowed more time to absorb your moisturizers before the air got to it.
Let me know if you try this out, what you liked, what you didn't like & how you remixed it for yourself!
Today? The shower cap.
I'm sure that most of us know that shower caps can prevent moisture from getting to our hair. However, not only can a shower cap keep the moisture OUT, it can keep the moisture IN.
Have you been trying your best to keep a daily and/or nightly hair moisturizing routine and STILL notice that your hair is dry when you wake up in the morning? PART of that reason may be because the air is soaking up all of the moisture from your hair products before your hair has a chance to absorb it.
My suggestion to you? After you moisturize you hair as explained here, put a plastic shower cap (the little cheap clear plastic ones will do) over your hair & then place your satin scarf or cap over top of it. Leave it on overnight. In the morning, take the cap off a few minutes before styling and manipulating your hair. Because the shower cap trapped the moisture inside of it, your hair might feel slightly damp. This usually isn't noticeable and dries quickly, which is why I suggest removing the cap a few minutes prior to when you actually begin to style your hair.
Your hair should not feel dry like it usually does since it was allowed more time to absorb your moisturizers before the air got to it.
Let me know if you try this out, what you liked, what you didn't like & how you remixed it for yourself!
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
HGKWW ::: Natural Hair in the Workplace
I was talking to my mom the other day about how I try to be careful about what hairstyles I wear to work. The short conversation we had inspired me to want to write a post on how certain natural looks are received in the workplace. But first, I was curious about my readers' experiences...
Please feel free to share your thoughts. This will probably develop into a series of posts & I might even throw in some quotes from your feedback...
Drop a comment or email me at jagray4@gmail.com with the subject line: HGKWW
Do you ever feel uncomfortable wearing your hair in all of its glorious kinkiness at work?
Do you think certain styles aren't appropriate?
Has anyone (supervisor, manager, etc.) ever suggested you change your hair? If so, how did you handle it? If not, how would you handle it?
How big is too big when it comes to styling your hair?
Which styles do you feel work? Which do you think don't make the cut for work?
Do you feel obligated to straighten your hair for work?
Do co-workers ever make comments about your hair, whether positive or negative?
Please feel free to share your thoughts. This will probably develop into a series of posts & I might even throw in some quotes from your feedback...
Drop a comment or email me at jagray4@gmail.com with the subject line: HGKWW
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
HGKWW ::: Q&A III
Q: I read somewhere that alcohol is bad for my hair. The problem is I see it in every hair product when I check the ingredients. Avoiding alcohol is pretty much impossible, so what should I do?!
A: My issue with a lot of the information you find about hair care is that people don't give a complete breakdown of the facts. You do not have to completely avoid alcohol when buying hair products. Why? Because not ALL alcohols are bad for your hair.
Here are the alcohols that you need to avoid:
- Menthanol
- Ethanol
- Alcohol Denat
- Isopropyl Alcohol
- Propanol
- SDA40
- Specially Denaturated Alcohol
These guys can dry the hair & leave it looking frizzy.
And believe it or not...there are alcohols that are good for your hair:
- Acetyl Alcohol
- Cetyl Alcohol
- Lanolin Alcohol
- Lauryl Alcohol
- Stearic Acid
- Stearyl Alcohol
- Sterol Alcohol
These are capable of softening and conditioning the hair.
So you can breathe!!!! Not all alcohols are out to get you!!!! Of course, everyone's hair is different & reacts to products differently, but you can use this as a guide to put you in the right direction.
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
HGKWW ::: Q&A II
Q: What can I do to minimize how tangled my hair gets whenever I wash it?!
A. Detangling hair can be a very frustrating process. But the best way to make detangling less of a hassle is to minimize the amount of tangling that happens in the FIRST place! Here are a few simple tips.
- Wash your hair in SECTIONS. You will not regret it. Depending on the thickness & length of your hair, separating it into 4-6 sections should be sufficient. I usually braid or twist sections that I am not working with at the moment. Honestly, whenever I do anything with my hair, I put it into sections. It makes the hair so much more manageable.
- Detangle while conditioning. Use a shower comb or a medium to wide toothed comb to detangle the hair after applying conditioner to wet hair. Conditioner helps make the hair easier to work with.
- Work from the ends to the roots. Nothing hurts my soul more than seeing someone quickly drag a comb from their roots all the way to the ends of their hair. You are tearing your hair out. Ripping it. If you take a moment, you will HEAR the hair breaking as your comb goes through it. Take your time. Start at the ends of the hair and work your way up to the roots until you are able to carefully comb through that sections of hair.
- Use a deep conditioner w/ silicones or natural oils. Let it sit in your hair for at least 20 minutes. If you have a hooded dryer, cover the hair with a shower cap and sit underneath the dryer while you are conditioning. The silicones and oils in the deep conditioner will help the comb glide through your hair.
- Detangle w/ a natural oil before washing. Only a little bit of oil needs to be applied to each section of the hair. Because the hair is still dry, work tangles out with your fingers. Using a comb on dry hair is BEGGING for breakage.
- & last..........................BE PATIENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Put It On Repeat ~ Janelle Monae "You Are My Everything"
I love this song.
It's 4 or 5 years old...but it feels brand new every time. Janelle's voice is simply golden.
It's 4 or 5 years old...but it feels brand new every time. Janelle's voice is simply golden.
Janelle Monae "You Are My Everything"
Thursday, November 11, 2010
HGKWW :: Q&A I
Q: What's the point of using a clarifying a shampoo right before you deep condition? Can you clarify at the conditioner stage instead?
A: So I'm assuming your logic is "Why do all of that cleansing to remove product build-up just to put more product on it?!!!!" Think of the clarifying shampoo as clearing the way for the conditioner so it can better penetrate the hair shaft. The shampoo knocks all of the old product and dirt and oil away so there is no interference when the conditioner tries to do its thing. The conditioner is necessary directly after to restore any goodies the shampoo may have stripped away in addition to the gunk you actually wanted to remove from your hair. It also remedies the dryness experienced after shampooing. If you think the clarifying shampoo may be too drying on your hair, yes, there are clarifying conditioners available. Do note that the drying effect is why I recommend only applying the shampoo to the scalp & roots and not the entire length of the hair.
HGKWW ::: Dry Cleansing & Conditioning
Soooooooooo
I tried something new recently & it was amazing. I was actually being lazy (don't be like me!!!) & then after my great results, I did some google'n just to find out that other people already knew about this.
Ok, Jess. What the crapizzle did you do?!!!!!!
I put conditioner in my hair while it was still dry. & it was good.
I had just shampoo'd my hair a few days before, but I'd been having a dryspell & decided to co-wash & deep condition as an attempt to get my moisture balance back in check. However, I was being drawn into this episode of "Dr. G, Medical Examiner" & didn't want to be away from the TV too long...and behold, my lazy behind idea.
From a few natural hair forums, I discovered that people refer to shampooing and conditioning the hair when it is dry as "dry cleansing" and "dry conditioning," respectively.
Here is my little version of both processes:
Dry Cleansing (shampoo)
I tried something new recently & it was amazing. I was actually being lazy (don't be like me!!!) & then after my great results, I did some google'n just to find out that other people already knew about this.
Ok, Jess. What the crapizzle did you do?!!!!!!
I put conditioner in my hair while it was still dry. & it was good.
I had just shampoo'd my hair a few days before, but I'd been having a dryspell & decided to co-wash & deep condition as an attempt to get my moisture balance back in check. However, I was being drawn into this episode of "Dr. G, Medical Examiner" & didn't want to be away from the TV too long...and behold, my lazy behind idea.
From a few natural hair forums, I discovered that people refer to shampooing and conditioning the hair when it is dry as "dry cleansing" and "dry conditioning," respectively.
Here is my little version of both processes:
Dry Cleansing (shampoo)
- Section hair
- Work the shampoo only on to the scalp and near roots of the hair (Shampoo is drying & I prefer to only apply it to the base of my hair follicles so it won't weaken my ends)
- Rinse out each section.
- Why this rocks?
- Avoid drying length of hair
- Shampoo can latch on to dirt and oils without interference of water
- Helps focus on getting scalp cleaner, especially for those with scalp issues---buildup, dry scalp, flakes
- Section hair
- Work conditioner thoroughly into each section.
- Detangle (carefully) with shower comb.
- Rinse out each section after at least 10 minutes.
- Why this rocks?
- Less detangling to do without the initial rinse of hair before adding
- Less shrinkage!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
HGKWW ::: This Is Not the Hair Bible.
Although I will not budge about some of the things I tell you (MOISTURIZE EVERY DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!), some things are open to adjustment. These are my suggestions to point you in the right direction. The Hair Police (they exist...don't moisturize & see what happens...) will not come find you and punish you for altering something so that it works best for you.
That is all. Keep the questions coming =)
That is all. Keep the questions coming =)
HGKWW ::: What is CO-WASHING?
WHAT IS CO-WASHING?!!!!!
You simply wash your hair with conditioner. That's it.
Now...some people might fight me on this...but...
I do not believe that co-washing should be a complete substitute for washing your hair with shampoo. Shampoo is designed to remove dirt and product buildup in ways that conditioner is not. If you do wish to join the folks who swear by co-washing and have abandoned shampoo, I strongly recommend using a CLARIFYING SHAMPOO once every month or two to rid your hair of the buildup from your conditioner.
What are the BENEFITS of Co-washing?
One. Conditioner does not dry your hair like shampoo. It leaves it feeling soft and moisturized.
Two. The detangling process goes so much smoother!
Three. For my transitioning ladies, it helps make blending new growth with relaxed ends a little easier.
Um...so how do I do it?
You use your conditioner the same way you would use your shampoo. That really is all there is to it. Section your hair. Slather (I just like that word) each section with conditioner. Work it in. Detangle w/ your shower comb. Let it rest for a couple minutes. Rinse.
And how often is this supposed to happen?
Because co-washing does not result in as much drying of the hair and does not strip down the follicles, some people will do it daily. I do not actually co-wash as often in the colder months because it is good to do as a prep for the wet-and-go hairstyles I ONLY do in warm weather (DO NOT WET-AND-GO IN COLD WEATHER!!!). Co-washing several times a week helps protect and revive my hair in its wet state between my regular shampoos. Depending on my time schedule, I will try to co-wash at least once a week when it is cold out.
Which conditioners are best for co-washing?
Some easy-on-the-pocket options? Mane-and-Tail, Suave Humectant, Suave Tropical Coconut, Herbal Essences, Frutis Garnier, Kinky-Curly Knot Today
What if it is not quite working out for me...should I keep trying?
You can experiment with different conditioners, but honestly, co-washing simply may not be the thing for you---and that's perfectly fine! I do recommend giving it a try, though!
Thursday, November 4, 2010
HGKWW ::: Let's Be Clear...
Shampoo is shampoo. It all gets your hair perfectly clean.....right?
Wrong.
There's clean and then there's squeaky clean.
Now WARNING: To all of you who like to go overboard & make a good thing bad...
You do not want your hair to be "squeaky" clean every time that you wash it. You will eventually risk stripping your hair of its nutrients and weakening it leading to BREAKAGE. So please do not take what I say & run away with it...at least, not too far. Do we have an understanding here? Great.
We have our lovely moisturizing and nourishing and replenishing and repairing and revitalizing shampoos. But the problem is, many of these shampoos can leave some residue behind. Yes, I know. You are looking at me crazy because how can something that is supposed to clean your hair get it dirty, too?! All of the ingredients put in shampoos used to moisturize and nourish and replenish and repair and revitalize your hair can cause buildup over time. This is why you need to invest in a CLARIFYING SHAMPOO.
Clarifying shampoo gets rid of any leftover gunk from other shampoos and conditioners. It also clears the way for nutrients to better penetrate the hair shaft when moisturizing and conditioning. People who have trouble with scalp buildup (meee!!!) will benefit from having a fresh foundation. Your hair will have that squeaky clean feeling and should even gain some shine!
I don't recommend doing this more than twice a month. Of course, you should adjust your usage depending on how much product (mouses, gels, cream, leave-ins, etc.) you've been using in your hair. I usually focus on the roots and scalp area and squeeze the shampoo through my hair towards the ends once I am about to rinse it out. (Remember shampoo can be drying on the ends of the hair!) And don't forget to still condition your hair after using your clarifying shampoo!
Wrong.
There's clean and then there's squeaky clean.
Now WARNING: To all of you who like to go overboard & make a good thing bad...
You do not want your hair to be "squeaky" clean every time that you wash it. You will eventually risk stripping your hair of its nutrients and weakening it leading to BREAKAGE. So please do not take what I say & run away with it...at least, not too far. Do we have an understanding here? Great.
We have our lovely moisturizing and nourishing and replenishing and repairing and revitalizing shampoos. But the problem is, many of these shampoos can leave some residue behind. Yes, I know. You are looking at me crazy because how can something that is supposed to clean your hair get it dirty, too?! All of the ingredients put in shampoos used to moisturize and nourish and replenish and repair and revitalize your hair can cause buildup over time. This is why you need to invest in a CLARIFYING SHAMPOO.
Clarifying shampoo gets rid of any leftover gunk from other shampoos and conditioners. It also clears the way for nutrients to better penetrate the hair shaft when moisturizing and conditioning. People who have trouble with scalp buildup (meee!!!) will benefit from having a fresh foundation. Your hair will have that squeaky clean feeling and should even gain some shine!
I don't recommend doing this more than twice a month. Of course, you should adjust your usage depending on how much product (mouses, gels, cream, leave-ins, etc.) you've been using in your hair. I usually focus on the roots and scalp area and squeeze the shampoo through my hair towards the ends once I am about to rinse it out. (Remember shampoo can be drying on the ends of the hair!) And don't forget to still condition your hair after using your clarifying shampoo!
Clarifying shampoos to check out:
Suave Daily Clarifying Shampoo
Pantene Pro-V Purify Shampoo
V05 Clarifying Shampoo
Aubrey Organics Green Tea Clarifying Shampoo
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